You cannot focus on how you feel if you are obsessed with a number that fluctuates daily.
When you catch yourself calling a food "bad," pause and say: "This food is neutral. It provides energy or pleasure. I am allowed to eat it." nudist teen picture new
Shame is a terrible long-term motivator. Research in health psychology (specifically the work of Dr. Linda Bacon on Health at Every Size) shows that shame-based health interventions almost always lead to weight cycling, disordered eating, and burnout. Conversely, self-acceptance predicts better health behaviors. You cannot focus on how you feel if